Rage, selfishness, and domination are not qualities of real men.
I can remember the day, many years ago, when I first learned that my (fake) “male” tendency to want to fix everything is not something that is helpful in a relationship with a woman.
“Surely if I could fix all of her problems, we could be happy.” That’s what my mind said to itself. It thought it was pretty smart for knowing such things.
But my mind was clueless. My experience showed me that my mind had mastered the ability to think stupid thoughts and still feel smart.